They need love, but just as importantly, they need boundaries.
They need to be told no, they need to be disciplined, and they need to learn what they can and can't do.
And if you don't do that, you basically ruin their chances at success.
Now, bear that in mind when you hear people like the Children's Commissioner arguing that kids should be off limit on citizen's arrests.
At the moment the Government is proposing a law change to allow retailers, or security guards, or you and I, to hold a shoplifter until the cops can get there and take over.
The Children's Commissioner is well-meaning because she just doesn't want kids hurt.
These things can go badly, especially if you've got the worst case playing out like we've seen, which when you've got weapons involved with kids turning up with hammers and knives and so on to raid a store.
But while she means well, she is wrong.
Because a loophole like that will be exploited by adults.
Gangs already use kids to commit their ram raids and their thefts because they know that kids get off more lightly than they would.
If you make a rule that kids are allowed to escape but adults get held down, you only make it more likely that they send the kids in, thereby making it more likely that kids end up ruining their life.
Which brings us back to the very start - kids need boundaries.
Not just from parents. But also from the state.
Heather du Plessis-Allan is a journalist and commentator who hosts Newstalk ZB's Drive show HERE - where this article was sourced.
6 comments:
Citizen's arrest is a terrible idea and prone to even more abuse unless you are ok with kidnapping and likely physical assault.
I know the cops are completely useless, but I have even less faith in Kiwis when acting in a mob rule situation.
So quaint to use the word “kids” when you’re talking about giant six-foot fifteen year olds with no socialisation and poor impulse control. May as well roll out cattle prods and tasers to Chubb for all the good a security guard will do against one of these behemoths armed with a hunting knife.
If you can't even smack your kid without breaking the law, what chance do you think you would have of restraining someone else's kid.
High time the Anti-Smacking law was repealed. Only there due to wrongheadedness of lefties. We have a generation or two of overly entitled young folk now well overdue for little smacked botties. There is a world of difference between a disciplining smack and full assault.
Heather, you have hit the nail on the head!
"....I have even less faith in Kiwis when acting in a mob rule situation.'
I take it you are referring to the wannabe gangsters currently running amok in our society!
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